Averil Christine McCoy

1944 - 2005
LocationEston, Middlesbrough
Age60 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth25/12/1944
Date of Death11/10/2005
Visitors11,701 since 09/10/2007
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Averil Christine McCoy,
My Mam was born on Christmas day 1944.
She passed away 11th October 2005, Aged 60 years old.

Averil was the wife of Dave, they had been married for 39 years.
Also the loving Mother to myself Diane, Jason & Jen.
Mother- in- law to Kevin & Tom.
& Nana Averil to Nicola, Adam, Lewis, Nathan, Georgia, Finley & she has 2 new Grandaughters Olivia &
baby Megan who sadly she never got to meet.

Averil fought breast cancer in 1996 & after treatment was given the all clear, We all thought that
she had won her battle but sadly in June 2005 we found out she had lung cancer.
Why should such a lovely lady have to fight a hard battle against cancer , And then for it to
return, it just was"nt fair.
My Sister Jen was expecting her 1st child.
Mam was so, so looking forward to the new baby coming, The baby was due December 23rd, Another
Christmas baby.
Mam was in & out of hospital, which she hated.
Late September Mam was told that there was nothing more could be done for her.
She decided that she wanted to come home & be with her family.
She fought so hard to stay & went through so much, She had so much to look forward to.
My Mam passed away on October 11th at 8am.

We all focused on the new babys arrival.
Baby Finley was born 2 weeks early on December 10th 2005.
After a few days the Doctors noticed that something was wrong with Finley & after tests found out he
had a problem with his heart.
Finley was transfered to Newcastle R.V.I hospital & underwent heart surgery.
Sadly our hearts where broken again when Finley joined his Nana Averil on her birthday, Christmas
day, aged 15 days old.
We lost 2 precious Angels in 2 months.
We know that Mam & Finley are together & looking after each other.
We all love & miss them both so much.
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A Mother is.......
A hand when you need it
A smile when your sad,
A lift when your weary
A song when your glad.
A help when you falter
A word when your blue,
A hope for the dreams
That are special to you.
She"s loving & caring
A Friend like no other,
Thankyou for being
That kind of Mother xxxx



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♥♥ I never will stop loving you
I still miss you every day,
I"d bring you home tomorrow
If i could find a way.. ♥♥


I would like to say a big thank you to everyone for all the candles, Tributes & photos. Your
kindness means so much to me xxx

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----♥♥-♥♥--- -ribbon on
---♥♥---♥♥-- -your profile
---♥♥---♥♥-- -if You Know
---♥♥---♥♥-- -Someone
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----♥♥-♥♥--- - to show them
---♥♥---♥♥-- -- how much
--♥♥-----♥♥---- you care...
--♥♥-----♥♥- -- R.I.P MAM xx




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︽☆︽ TIME TO FOLD YOUR ANGEL WINGS ︽☆︽
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.............((............ A ray of sunshine came & went
.............) \........... A beautiful treasure only lent
............( , ).......... A prayer
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︽☆︽ SWEET ANGEL ︽☆︽ SWEET DREAMS ︽☆︽

Janis Stevenson (Friend) Thursday evening

Heavens Garden x x

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Joyce Collins Wednesday night

4th November 2009



✝ • ♥ • ✞ Just Like a rainbow, ✝ • ♥ • ✞

Fading in the twinkling of an eye………

✝ • ♥ • ✞ Gone Too Soon . ✝ • ♥ • ✞

Jude Swaddle Wednesday afternoon

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Vicky Gray (Friend) Tuesday afternoon

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♥ From Water Bug to Dragonfly ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)

The bottom of the pond is muddy and dark
There is fear of the unknown
There is loneliness as things change
There is the desperation of being left behind
Not knowing, not understanding
Watching and waiting
Then the journey comes
Up the stem
What waits beyond?
Sunlight
Freedom
Dancing together in joy with those who went before
And who will come after.
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Mel Xxxxx Tuesday afternoon

thinking of you
♥ TIME WILL EASE THE HURT ♥
♥ by Bruce B. Wilmer ♥

♥ The sadness of the present days ♥
♥ Is locked and set in time, ♥
♥ And meaning to the future ♥
♥ Is a slow and painful climb. ♥
♥ But all the feelings that are now ♥
♥ So vivid and so real ♥
♥ Can't hold their fresh intensity ♥
♥ As time begins to heal. ♥
♥ No wound so deep will ever go ♥
♥ Entirely away; ♥
♥ Yet every hurt becomes ♥
♥ A little less from day to day. ♥
♥ Nothing can erase the painful ♥
♥ Imprints on your mind; ♥
♥ But there are softer memories ♥
♥ That time will let you find. ♥
♥ Though your heart won't let the sadness ♥
♥ Simply slide away, ♥
♥ The echoes will diminish ♥
♥ Even though the memories stay. ♥

Vicky Gray (Friend) 6 days ago

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Tributes For Week Starting 2nd November

FOR MONDAY

There's a special kind of feeling,
That's meant for you alone,
A special place within our hearts,
That only you can own.

FOR TUESDAY

If only prayers were answered,
& wishes did come true,
Our only wishes with all our hearts,
Would be to still have you

FOR WEDNESDAY

We send this special message
To the heavens up above
Please take care of our precious angels
And give them all our love


FOR THURSDAY

I lit a candle for you today
May it's light reflect my love your way
Now I must go until next time
I will forever keep you, gently on my mind


FOR FRIDAY

Angels

When you were born, an angel smiled,
As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder
When you became an adult, an angel held your hand
As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,
And, when you died, another angel got their wings.


FOR SATURDAY

Letter From Heaven


To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said,
"I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed
While you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.


FOR SUNDAY

Reply to "Letter from Heaven"

My Dearest Loved one:

I received your Letter from Heaven,
It made the teardrops fall.
But knowing you’re with God above,
Sweet memories, I will recall.

I know that you are with me,
For I feel your presence near.
And if I listen closely,
Your voice I then can hear.

I know you’re watching o’er me,
As you promised you would do.
And when I feel so saddened,
It’s your letter that sees me through.

When I lay in bed at night,
The day’s chores put to flight,
I truly feel your presence,
Like a warm and glowing light.

The rocky roads you mentioned,
And the hills that I must climb;
I’ve done exactly what you said,
By taking one day at a time.

I’ve tried to help others,
Who are in sorrow and in pain.
And now I am contented,
My day was not in vain.

I’ll lend a hand, as you have said
When someone is feeling low.
I’ll pray for them and be here,
‘Till on their way they go.

And when it’s time for me to go,
To join you in heaven high.
My wings I shall spread wide,
To my home up in the sky.


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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher's Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend) 6 days ago

xxx Happy Halloween xxxx
31ST OCTOBER 2009
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Happy Halloween xxxx

Janis Stevenson (Friend) 1 week ago

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Prayer of Faith.

We trust that beyond absence there is a presence.
That beyond the pain there can be healing.
That beyond the brokenness there can be wholeness.
That beyond the anger there may be peace.
That beyond the hurting there may be forgiveness.
That beyond the silence there may be the word.
That beyond the word there may be understanding.
That through understanding there is love.

Anon

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Mel Xxxxx 1 week ago




☆31ST OCTOBER 2009☆



☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2009 ☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆




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♥ ♰ ♥ A SMILE CAN HIDE THE SADNESS ♥ ♰ ♥ A TEAR CAN BE WIPED AWAY ♥ ♰ ♥ BUT THE HEARTACHE OF LOSING YOU ♥ ♰ ♥ WILL NEVER GO AWAY ♥ ♰ ♥


LOVE JUDE. XX

Jude Swaddle 1 week ago
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