| Location | Eston, Middlesbrough |
| Age | 60 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 25/12/1944 |
| Date of Death | 11/10/2005 |
| Visitors | 11,932 since 09/10/2007 |
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Averil Christine McCoy,
My Mam was born on Christmas day 1944.
She passed away 11th October 2005, Aged 60 years old.
Averil was the wife of Dave, they had been married for 39 years.
Also the loving Mother to myself Diane, Jason & Jen.
Mother- in- law to Kevin & Tom.
& Nana Averil to Nicola, Adam, Lewis, Nathan, Georgia, Finley & she has 2 new Grandaughters Olivia &
baby Megan who sadly she never got to meet.
Averil fought breast cancer in 1996 & after treatment was given the all clear, We all thought that
she had won her battle but sadly in June 2005 we found out she had lung cancer.
Why should such a lovely lady have to fight a hard battle against cancer , And then for it to
return, it just was"nt fair.
My Sister Jen was expecting her 1st child.
Mam was so, so looking forward to the new baby coming, The baby was due December 23rd, Another
Christmas baby.
Mam was in & out of hospital, which she hated.
Late September Mam was told that there was nothing more could be done for her.
She decided that she wanted to come home & be with her family.
She fought so hard to stay & went through so much, She had so much to look forward to.
My Mam passed away on October 11th at 8am.
We all focused on the new babys arrival.
Baby Finley was born 2 weeks early on December 10th 2005.
After a few days the Doctors noticed that something was wrong with Finley & after tests found out he
had a problem with his heart.
Finley was transfered to Newcastle R.V.I hospital & underwent heart surgery.
Sadly our hearts where broken again when Finley joined his Nana Averil on her birthday, Christmas
day, aged 15 days old.
We lost 2 precious Angels in 2 months.
We know that Mam & Finley are together & looking after each other.
We all love & miss them both so much.
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A Mother is.......
A hand when you need it
A smile when your sad,
A lift when your weary
A song when your glad.
A help when you falter
A word when your blue,
A hope for the dreams
That are special to you.
She"s loving & caring
A Friend like no other,
Thankyou for being
That kind of Mother xxxx
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♥♥ I never will stop loving you
I still miss you every day,
I"d bring you home tomorrow
If i could find a way.. ♥♥
I would like to say a big thank you to everyone for all the candles, Tributes & photos. Your
kindness means so much to me xxx
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---♥♥---♥♥-- -your profile
---♥♥---♥♥-- -if You Know
---♥♥---♥♥-- -Someone
----♥♥-♥♥--- -Who Died
-----♥♥♥------ Of cancer
----♥♥-♥♥--- - to show them
---♥♥---♥♥-- -- how much
--♥♥-----♥♥---- you care...
--♥♥-----♥♥- -- R.I.P MAM xx
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Tributes For This Week Starting 19th October
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FOR MONDAY
Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.
FOR TUESDAY
Your life was a blessing
Your memory a treasure...
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure...
FOR WEDNESDAY
We miss you now, our hearts are sore,
As time goes by we miss you more,
Your loving smile, your gentle face,
No one can fill your vacant place.
FOR THURSDAY
Looking back with memories,
Upon the path you trod,
We bless the hours we had with you,
And leave the rest with God.
FOR FRIDAY
ROSES GROW IN HEAVEN
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
FOR SATURDAY
I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS
As you hold me close in memory,
Even though we are apart,
My spirit will live on,
There within your heart .
I am with you always.
When you lean on trusted friends
And their caring hugs enfold you,
Within their loving arms,
I'll be there to hold you.
I am with you always.
And beyond the far horizon
When we'll finally be together,
Where love will be eternal
And life will last forever.
I am with you always.
FOR SUNDAY
TRUE LOVE
You were a gift sent straight from Heaven.
Given to us from God above.
We didn't know how much you would teach us
About the meaning of true love...
For true love sometimes means letting go
Of someone precious and dear.
That is what we were forced to do...
Although we wanted to keep you here!!!
However, this is quite a selfish wish.
One we know we should ignore...
But, sweet angel, we truly do believe
That God must have needed you more...
Perhaps to be an Angel now,
Full of wisdom and love...
Watching over those of us who love you
From the shining stars above.
We miss you more than you can know.
You will never be replaced...
In our hearts and memories forever,
Will be your sweet and innocent sleeping face.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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☼ The Sea and the Beach ☼
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The sea seems to illustrate pain and sorrow so well
It comes in and goes out
For a while it is there, overwhelming, covering everything
Then slowly the tide turns and it withdraws
For a while we can see the beauty of the shells, the seaweed
We can rejoice in the patterns in the sand
We can feel the corrugated ripples under our feet
Alive to what is around, and beyond
But then the tide turns and again it is all washed away, all overwhelmed
We feel like the crashing of the waves on rocks
Raw and out of control
Full of anger and rage
Battered and bruised
Tossed about like flotsam floating wherever we are thrown
There are so many questions. Why now? Why her?
But no answers
Then the sea calms and gently the waves lap the rocks
We are soothed and the inner turmoil is calmed
In time we can learn to move up the beach as the tide comes in
Out of its reach
Not to be overwhelmed
The pain is still there, but in control
We can recognise the pain
Revisiting the sadness
Acknowledging how much the person is missed
We learn to turn away and look to the future
Knowing the person will always be part of us
Always loved and always remembered
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Dear lord before i sleep tonight,
I need a few answers please,
Ive asked so many times before,
But this time im begging on my knees.
Why did you take my loved ones away,
I just need to understand,
Are they all happy up there,
Walking in your land.
Do they know who i am,
And can they still see me,
Is there really life after death,
And are they flying free.
Lord alls i want is just one hug,
just one last little kiss,
To let them know that i still care,
Dear lord thats all i wish.
Well again i have no answers,
But i will try again tomorrow,
One day you must answer me lord,
And take away my sorrow.
But for now my lord,
I lay down to sleep,
Close my eyes,
And try not to weep
Copyright� Becky Tuffs 2009
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~~~~~~ Thank You My Friend ~~~~~~~
I would like to thank you very much
for everything you do.
My friend your inspiration
has helped to pull me through
All the comfort you bestow
helps when I'm feeling low
And without people like you
I would never have got through.
I know that you can't put things right
but you have helped me my depression fight.
So never under estimate the power of a friendly word
not to money or riches can friendship be compared.
There's nothing in life that can compare
to a caring friend who is always there.
So thank you my friend for all you do
and always remember I'll be here for you.
Copyright� Ingrid Aspen
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Night time comes with just more sorrow,
I hope its a brighter day tomorrow,
I lay here crying at night,
Afraid to turn out my light.
Watching from my window,
As strangers watch my tears flow,
They dont know what i eel inside,
They dont know that my loved one died.
If they did would they stop awhile,
And just try to make my frown a smile,
Or would they simply walk on by,
As if they never seen me cry.
Alls i need is just a friend,
Someone who i can depend,
Who when i cry wont run away,
But stick by me from day to day.
Copyright� Becky Tuffs 2009
Quietly I weepAlthough I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence
Quietly I weep
I long to see your smile
Hear your laughter, hug you tight
But you're no longer with me
You've headed toward the light
I'm sure you are quite happy
Here on earth I miss you so
Asking that same question
Why was it you that had to go?
I am sure there is an answer...
One that might make sense
When others offer reasons
I'm just on the defense
If they could understand me
Know how hard life is with grief
Just hold my hand and listen...
That would be a great relief
Although I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence...
Quietly I weep
*♥* SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YOU *♥*
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REST IN PEACE ANGEL
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✿SWEET DREAMS
LOVE MARGO XXX
Roses
If Roses grow in heaven Lord
Please pich a bunch up there
And place them in Diane s mum s arms
To let her know she still cares.
With Love and Light
Liesha
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.♥.Four lonely years without you
Is the saddest I have known,
I treasure every thought of you
When I am on my own.
I love you & I miss you
What more can I say,
I only wish with all my heart
That you where here today.♥.
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My heart feel"s oh so empty
It"s shattered, Broke in two,
There"s nothing that can mend it
It broke when i lost you.
So my heart will just stay broken
For all my living day"s,
I will always love & miss you
In a hundred million way"s..
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I can"t get over losing You
I would"nt even try,
I"ll just go on loving & missing you
Untill the end of time.
If memories bring you closer
We"re never far apart,
Not a day will i forget you
You"re always in my heart..
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Thinking of you Mam xx
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