Averil Christine McCoy

1944 - 2005
LocationEston, Middlesbrough
Age60 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth25/12/1944
Date of Death11/10/2005
Visitors11,931 since 09/10/2007
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Averil Christine McCoy,
My Mam was born on Christmas day 1944.
She passed away 11th October 2005, Aged 60 years old.

Averil was the wife of Dave, they had been married for 39 years.
Also the loving Mother to myself Diane, Jason & Jen.
Mother- in- law to Kevin & Tom.
& Nana Averil to Nicola, Adam, Lewis, Nathan, Georgia, Finley & she has 2 new Grandaughters Olivia &
baby Megan who sadly she never got to meet.

Averil fought breast cancer in 1996 & after treatment was given the all clear, We all thought that
she had won her battle but sadly in June 2005 we found out she had lung cancer.
Why should such a lovely lady have to fight a hard battle against cancer , And then for it to
return, it just was"nt fair.
My Sister Jen was expecting her 1st child.
Mam was so, so looking forward to the new baby coming, The baby was due December 23rd, Another
Christmas baby.
Mam was in & out of hospital, which she hated.
Late September Mam was told that there was nothing more could be done for her.
She decided that she wanted to come home & be with her family.
She fought so hard to stay & went through so much, She had so much to look forward to.
My Mam passed away on October 11th at 8am.

We all focused on the new babys arrival.
Baby Finley was born 2 weeks early on December 10th 2005.
After a few days the Doctors noticed that something was wrong with Finley & after tests found out he
had a problem with his heart.
Finley was transfered to Newcastle R.V.I hospital & underwent heart surgery.
Sadly our hearts where broken again when Finley joined his Nana Averil on her birthday, Christmas
day, aged 15 days old.
We lost 2 precious Angels in 2 months.
We know that Mam & Finley are together & looking after each other.
We all love & miss them both so much.
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A Mother is.......
A hand when you need it
A smile when your sad,
A lift when your weary
A song when your glad.
A help when you falter
A word when your blue,
A hope for the dreams
That are special to you.
She"s loving & caring
A Friend like no other,
Thankyou for being
That kind of Mother xxxx



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♥♥ I never will stop loving you
I still miss you every day,
I"d bring you home tomorrow
If i could find a way.. ♥♥


I would like to say a big thank you to everyone for all the candles, Tributes & photos. Your
kindness means so much to me xxx

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27TH SEPTEMBER 2009

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Jude Swaddle September 27, 2009

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TRIBUTES FOR THIS WEEK

FOR MONDAY

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

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FOR TUESDAY

We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.

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FOR WEDNESDAY

Thank you for loving and sharing,
For giving and for caring.
God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again.

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FOR THURSDAY

Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.

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FOR FRIDAY

Memories Build a Special Bridge
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part
To help us feel we're with them still
And sooth a grieving heart.

Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind,
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.

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FOR SATURDAY

God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
And whispered "Come to Me".

With tearful eyes we watched you,
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

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FOR SUNDAY

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend) September 27, 2009

My grief is like a river,
I have to let it flow,
but I myself determine
the banks that it will go.
Some days the current takes me
in waves of guilt and pain,
but there are always quiet pools
where I can rest again.
I crash on rocks of anger;
my faith seems faint indeed,
but there are some blessed swimmers
who know exactly what I need
some loving hands to hold me
when the waters are too swift,
and someone kind to listen
when I just seem to go adrift.
Grief's river is a process
of relinquishing the past.
By swimming in Hope's channels,
I'll reach the shore at last.





Many moments... many tears...
Many thoughts won't disappear

Many memories bittersweet
Many years left incomplete

Many days spent in denial
Many wishes for your smile

Many hopes and dreams are gone
Many days are spent withdrawn

Many years have passed me by
Many times I still ask why

Many people think I'm fine
Many times I've begged for signs

Many sleepless nights are spent
Many hours with torment

Many moments... many tears
Many more in future years

Vicky Gray (Friend) September 25, 2009

tributes for the weekend xxxxx

FOR FRIDAY 25TH SEPTEMBER

Good Bye

I know my time has ended,
Its time for me to leave.
I want you all to know,
You mean so much to me.

Why I had to go,
Was a mystery to me.
All I heard was God,
Saying “ Please come home to me.”

So I left my friends and family,
I didn’t say goodbye.
All I got to see,
Were the tears in their eyes.

But as I saw them crying,
I asked them not to grieve.
Knowing how much we care,
That our love will never cease.

You can look up at the sky,
And look over to the sea.
When you feel that gentle breeze,
You always think of me.


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FOR SATURDAY

If I Had One Last Day


If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied

I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay

You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"

Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"

If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart

If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.



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FOR SUNDAY


Letter From Heaven For My Family........


When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an Angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind,
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you".
Today for life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.


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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
LOVE ALWAYS FROM CHRISTINE ROBERT AND FAMILY XXXX

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Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 25, 2009

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Time has stood still for those who love you,
the grief is still fresh, their hearts are still blue.
Memories can ease pain but they never can fill,
the space that is left when they think of you still.

So stay near to those who miss you each day,
for they carry a sadness since you went away.
Send the strength to cope where others have tried,
and some love for their hearts that hurt deep inside.

⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰


love and missed always xxx

Janis Stevenson (Friend) September 24, 2009

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love always from christine robert and family xxxxx

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 24, 2009

Always remember how much we love you..
Always remember how much we care
Always shine bright in heaven..
'Cos you are a special Angel there

God needed a special Angel..
In God's kingdom up above
So Goodnight my special Angel..
And I send you all my love

copyright Jackie Thomas 10/09/09.

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 23, 2009

Hugs Just For You .........


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Lorraine Allsopp (Friend) September 23, 2009

Gone Too Soon

G od took you gently by the hand,
O n wings of love to another land,
N estled in the clouds up high,
E ternal live he gave you in the sky,

T he ones left behind have broken hearts,
O h they did not want you to depart,
O ne day you will all meet again,

S aving a place and no more pain,
O n wings of love in Heaven above,
O ur hearts are filled with lots of love,
N ever more then a heartbeat away,

Gone too soon but remembered every single day.
LOVE FROM CHRISTINE ROBERT AND FAMILY XXXXX
Copyright @ Sandy

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 23, 2009

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ GOODNIGHT,GOD BLESS Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ


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┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★ It's Time To Sleep ♥
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┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★ And Have Sweet Dreams Until You Wake ♥
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★ With Love From janis xxxx

Janis Stevenson (Friend) September 22, 2009
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