| Location | Eston, Middlesbrough |
| Age | 60 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 25/12/1944 |
| Date of Death | 11/10/2005 |
| Visitors | 11,930 since 09/10/2007 |
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Averil Christine McCoy,
My Mam was born on Christmas day 1944.
She passed away 11th October 2005, Aged 60 years old.
Averil was the wife of Dave, they had been married for 39 years.
Also the loving Mother to myself Diane, Jason & Jen.
Mother- in- law to Kevin & Tom.
& Nana Averil to Nicola, Adam, Lewis, Nathan, Georgia, Finley & she has 2 new Grandaughters Olivia &
baby Megan who sadly she never got to meet.
Averil fought breast cancer in 1996 & after treatment was given the all clear, We all thought that
she had won her battle but sadly in June 2005 we found out she had lung cancer.
Why should such a lovely lady have to fight a hard battle against cancer , And then for it to
return, it just was"nt fair.
My Sister Jen was expecting her 1st child.
Mam was so, so looking forward to the new baby coming, The baby was due December 23rd, Another
Christmas baby.
Mam was in & out of hospital, which she hated.
Late September Mam was told that there was nothing more could be done for her.
She decided that she wanted to come home & be with her family.
She fought so hard to stay & went through so much, She had so much to look forward to.
My Mam passed away on October 11th at 8am.
We all focused on the new babys arrival.
Baby Finley was born 2 weeks early on December 10th 2005.
After a few days the Doctors noticed that something was wrong with Finley & after tests found out he
had a problem with his heart.
Finley was transfered to Newcastle R.V.I hospital & underwent heart surgery.
Sadly our hearts where broken again when Finley joined his Nana Averil on her birthday, Christmas
day, aged 15 days old.
We lost 2 precious Angels in 2 months.
We know that Mam & Finley are together & looking after each other.
We all love & miss them both so much.
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A Mother is.......
A hand when you need it
A smile when your sad,
A lift when your weary
A song when your glad.
A help when you falter
A word when your blue,
A hope for the dreams
That are special to you.
She"s loving & caring
A Friend like no other,
Thankyou for being
That kind of Mother xxxx
════╔══╗Gone But
════║══║Not Forgotten
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♥♥ I never will stop loving you
I still miss you every day,
I"d bring you home tomorrow
If i could find a way.. ♥♥
I would like to say a big thank you to everyone for all the candles, Tributes & photos. Your
kindness means so much to me xxx
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------♥♥------Put this
----♥♥-♥♥--- -ribbon on
---♥♥---♥♥-- -your profile
---♥♥---♥♥-- -if You Know
---♥♥---♥♥-- -Someone
----♥♥-♥♥--- -Who Died
-----♥♥♥------ Of cancer
----♥♥-♥♥--- - to show them
---♥♥---♥♥-- -- how much
--♥♥-----♥♥---- you care...
--♥♥-----♥♥- -- R.I.P MAM xx
friend
Friend
I cannot ease you aching heart,
Nor take away your pain,
But let me stay and take your hand,
And walk with you today.
I'll listen when you need to talk;
I'll share your worries when they come;
I'll help you face your fears.
I'm here and I will stand by you,
Each hill your have to climb,
So take my hand, let's face the world;
Live one day at a time.
You're not alone, for I'm still here,
I'll go that extra mile,
And when your grief is easier,
I'll help you learn to smile.
hi diane ,i hope you are well and just to let you know i am thinking of you at this time , all my love lynne.xxx
Thinking of you with love
God bless you Averil. Such a sad and devastaing story. My love is with you and your family... Diane, Thinking of you with love and thank you so much for all the beautiful tributes and candles for my Sarah. Sleep tight dear Avril. xxxxxxxxxx
For you Diane
Everyone Needs Someone
People need people and friends need friends
And we all need love for a full life depends
Not on vast riches or great acclaim,
Not on success or on worldy fame,
But just in knowing that someone cares
And holds us close in their thoughts and prayers-
For only the knowledge that we're understood
Makes everyday living feel wonderfully good,
And we rob ourselves of life's greatest need
When we 'lock up our hearts' and fail to heed
The outstretched hand reaching to find
A kindred spirit whose heart and mind
Are lonely and longing to somehow share
Our joys and sorrows and to make us aware
That life's completeness and richness depends
On the things we share with our loved ones
and friends.
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Those we love
are never really lost to us -
we feel them
in so many special ways-
through friends
they always cared about
and dreams they left behind,
in beauty that they added to our days...
in words of wisdom we still carry with us
and memories that never will be gone...
Those we love are never really lost to us -
For everywhere their special love lives on.
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hello diane ,i think you put a message on my sisters site a few weeks ago and i tryed to find you to thank you ,i hope today is filled with many happy memories of your mum,lynne(diane trotter)
I thought i saw your face today
In the sparkle of the sun,
Then i heard an Angel say
'Her work on Earth is done'
I thought i felt your touch today
In the breeze that rustled by,
Then i heard an Angel say
'The spirit never die's'
I thought that you had left me
For the stars so far above,
Then i heard an Angel say
'She left you with her love'
I thought that i would miss you so
And never find my way,
Then i heard an Angel say
'She's with you every day'
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for diane
hi diane, you dont have to thank me for leaving a tribute on your mams site, i only wish i wasnt and than it would mean your mam would still be here. i hope your day is going as well as can be expected and am thinking of you. i cant beleive how big your baby was at 12 weeks early, that was good as i should imagine it would make things easier with less complications. i will leave you my e mail add on here so we can chat, well thats if you would like to. banks_mandy@yahoo.co.uk take care love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Love you Nan
Hi Nan,
It has now been 2 years since we lost you and things will never be the same. i miss all our little jokes and miss sitting and talking to you (that is what saturday afternoons used to be about). Lots of things have happened in the last two years and i wish you were here to let me know what you think. Also, i have moved just round the corner and wish you were here to just pop round. We all miss you so much and think about you everyday. I hope you are happy and watching over us until we are all together again one day. Love you always and think about you everyday.Nic xxxxxxxxxxxx
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